Somewhat new around here, first time i saw somebody advise a 10hz gap in the crossover. Why? Just trying to learn. :-)
Just to add to what others have said-but there are 2 main reasons for having a gap (but not in every case).
1: As already said-the subs are typically run hotter, meaning that the point at which the subs and tops meet would be the acoustical crossover.
This is assuming the response of the subs is flat-which is rarely the case up where the crossover point is.
2: In many cases the subs have a rising response towards the ACOUSTICAL crossover region. So you need to cross them over lower to have a flatter response around crossover.
NOW comes the hard part. Getting an actual proper alignment. Without proper measurement gear and knowing how to use it to look at the phase-it becomes a real guessing game.
You can try putting in a sine wave at the crossover freq (lets just say 90Hz for now) and flipping the polarity of the tops and adjusting the delay for a null-then flip the polarity back for proper operation
HOWEVER this method has several problems. It could be that the null method results in an improper time-that while true it give the proper time for the crossover freq-there could be notches on either side (above and below in freq) that now have notches that do not show up in the test.
The PROPER way is look at the phase response and adjust that-while also looking at the freq response to see if you are getting good addition and not putting any nulls in the response (up to an octave above and below crossover).
Or you would put some music in and simply adjust the delay on the tops until it sounds "right" to you.
Now write down the delay used and choose a different track by a different artist and adjust again. See if you come up with the same time.
This method is best if you have 2 people-one to adjust (and not tell the person what the time is while adjusting-to keep bias out of it) and one to listen.
Be sure to try several tracks and see if you come up with the same result each time. If not-then you need another method.
Some people are very good at this-most are not. Just like tuning a car by listening to the engine. In most cases it takes the proper gear to do it right. You might be able to get "kinda close or close enough", but getting it "right" requires a bit more investment.