I was messing around one time and stuck on of those flat Shure condenser mics (model??) in the kick. I've been using it since. With the channel EQ flat, it's got a perfectly clean attack but with plenty of thump. I've also used the Audix D6 kick mic with excellent results. SM57 on the snare (of course), Beta 56's on the toms, and two old EV (model unknown) condensers for overheads. The kit is completely enclosed in a plexiglass "room" and everything sounds great in the house.
As far as processing, I use a compressor on the snare and kick. Tried it on the toms but I just couldn't get it to sound right.
Sanctuary seats just under 2000 and it's got a 20,000 watt Community SLS system. If the drums are turned off, you can't even hear them over the piano. It's nice to have total control over how they sound, but it took a lot of work to get here!!