I have a bass player who demands to have his bass come through rather loudly in a monitor close to him that is pointed to the back wall of the church platform. That back wall is panel over quite a thick red brick wall. The problem is that I get so much reflected bass from the monitor that I have to turn the subwoofers down significantly which affects the FOH mix and then I cannot make adjustments to the house mix for the bass. Are absorber or reflector panels needed on the back wall of the platform? How effective would they be? Is there a better solution?
You'll probably find that a lot of the problem is direct sound from the monitor. Your standard 12" 2-way box is omnidirectional below a few hundred Hz, so there'll be plenty of mud direct from the stage. Acoustic treatment of the back wall might help a little, but you need some pretty serious stuff to absorb in the low frequencies.
Best bet, IMO, is to talk to the bassist, find out what they're hoping to hear, explain how the loud monitor affects things out front, and go from there.
IME, a bassists usually like to feel the bass, which means standing in front of an 8x10" cab with a large amp cranked.
Trying to replicate that with a stage monitor won't be fun for the monitor or anyone else in the venue. So, they need to turn it down.
If you wanted to play a little trick, part-way through soundcheck engage a 2kHz highpass on the bassist's monitor. Tell him the LF driver is blown, and you'll get it fixed for next time. In the mean time, here's a Crappy Monitor
TM which will have to do for now.
When you have "fixed" the faulty monitor, say the repair shop was amazed it had lasted this long, and recommend you turn down in the future. Have a number in mind for how much the "repair" cost, and remind the bassist of that whenever they ask for more level.
Chris