I'm still unsure of what everyone is afraid of. In over 15 years of doing live sound I can probably count on one hand how many times a stick has hit one of my mics. It's very few. Also I have never lost a mic due to a stick hit. NEVER. I will also let the drummer decide if anything is in his way. We work together to avoid hitting mics.
I've used 57's or 408's on toms for most of my career and have never lost one to a drummer.
So how about get what mics are right for you, and position them on drums where they won't get hit. You can see the strike pattern on the head of the drum. If the guy has good stick control hang the mic over the head a little farther, if not, then keep the mic way back off the rim. Your toms may not sound the best that night, but you won't lose a mic to a poor drummer either. And if the drummer has poor stick control, his drums probably won't sound great anyway.