I actually find myself in the odd position of somewhat defending Mackie! I agree that it's a pain that you can't use standard hardware due to the cabinet design but after quick looks at the SRM450 manual, spec sheet and online info, I don't see where any of these indicate that you can use standard eyebolts, only that the SRM450 has integrated M10 mounting points.
The SRM450 Owner's Manual states "These are M10 inserts. M10 threaded eye-bolts (M10 x 1.5 mm x 20 mm) are available to fit these inserts (PA-A1 Eyebolts)." while the spec sheet notes under Options "PA-A1 forged shoulder eyebolt hardware (M10 x 1.5 mm x 20 mm)". The PA-A1 is a Mackie item and if you look at one it is not a standard eyebolt, it has the 'extender' or standoff you mentioned. Admittedly, they might be made in China right alongside the speaker, but Mackie apparently does offer the appropriate eyebolts.
I actually have to possibly congratulate Mackie here as apparently the PA-A1 is not easy to find because you have to go through an authorized dealer. I'm guessing that maybe they don't actually want everyone trying to fly their speakers so they limit the accessibility to the related hardware.