Wow, Art, sorry to hear. That's a lot to deal with in such a short span. I hope things turn around very quickly. I suspect in a situation like this I'd be chomping at the bit to move as soon as feasible—do you think Florida will be agreeable to you?
Tom,
I like Florida, and very much like DeLand, I have just had a few "failure to communicate" problems
.
The disintegration of a long term relationship after too much stress for too long left me vulnerable, and led to a series of decisions that in retrospect were quite poor.
Fortunately, I have paid most of the cost for the poor choices already, and feel like I've come out of the "death spiral" with my wings still intact.
Unfortunately, I tend to learn best from mistakes- just need to start learning more from
others mistakes and stop making so many myself!
Art