I usually try and teach the band about tuning their instruments EQ to the room much like we do a PA. It does sound cool to rattle the walls with all that low end bass, but it sure sounds like crap when all you hear is the walls rattling........ If the drummer can't tune it out, or the drums are really already in good tune ( not too often these days ) then I lean on the guitarist and bassist to reduce something that can help. Nothing worse than a guitarist with a half stack and enough low end to mask the punch of the kick drum and everything else around it. Couple that with a bassist that thinks that having that 1 brown note rattle the glass off the bar is the coolest thing ever adds up to a whole lot of fail.